So much information preaches no contact. They say it’s the only solution for dealing with a narcissist & you’re naive if you think otherwise, so just do it already! It fixes everything!
To a degree, this is true. Usually no contact is the only solution since it’s not like narcissists are prone to change or willing to work on creating a mutually beneficial, healthy relationship.
There is one thing no one mentions though- that no contact needs to be done only after you are 1,000% sure you can do it indefinitely, no matter what.
If you go no contact with a narcissist then later resume the relationship, things will NOT go well with you! Sure, they might for a short time, but it won’t last.
If a narcissist is able to lure you back into the relationship, you are showing that you’re weak & have no boundaries. She sees you…
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